Partners
Give one Friday. It carries your name.
Partners are local businesses and organizations that make one or more of the ten dinners happen: bread, wine or flowers, a room, funding, or guests. Each Friday seats 24, and yours carries your name in the briefing, the press release and the social kit, with a seat for you at the table.
- The season
- Oct 16 to Dec 18
- Which Fridays
- One or more of the ten
- Our reply
- Within 2 days
Vayera וירא
Given by
Your business here
Friday, October 30, 2026. Candles at 5:44 pm.
Who sits at the table
24 invited guests every Friday, 240 seats across the season. Every guest is approved by name: a mix of newcomers, regulars and community groups, some invited by Zackory, some by a partner, some who applied.
Zackory hosts all ten Fridays and reads every application himself.
- 24guests each Friday
- 240seats across the season
- 10Fridays, Oct 16 to Dec 18
Four ways to partner
Give food, a room, funds or guests. Every way is named, and every way has a seat. Figures are planning figures for a Friday of 24 guests.
Table partner |
Host partner |
Patron |
Community partner |
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| You give | Bread, wine, flowers or food for one Friday, given in kind |
A room, a home or a gallery after hours, with a long table and a place to plate food |
Funds one Friday: the food, wine, rentals and crew that are not given in kind |
Your organization brings guests: you nominate people, Zackory approves each by name |
| What it costs | About $60 to $250 at cost Challah for 24 is about $60 to $180; wine and juice about $240; flowers for the long table about $180. |
No cash. About $900 of room and kitchen, given in kind Access from 2:30 pm, lock-up by 10 pm. The address goes only to confirmed guests, 48 hours before. |
About $2,200 to $2,500 for the Friday Planning figures for 24 guests: groceries and kitchen, rentals, wine and juice, print, candles and a crew meal. |
No cost Bring up to 4 guests who have never been to a Shabbat dinner, or who have not been to one in years. |
| Who is there | 24 guests that night 1 seat for you |
24 guests that night 2 seats for you and one guest |
24 guests that night 2 seats for you and one guest |
24 guests that night Up to 4 nominated seats |
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| Exclusivity | One partner per kind of gift each Friday: one bakery, one wine shop, one florist |
One room per Friday |
One Patron per Friday, presented in your name |
One community group per Friday |
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What you get, and when
Every promise to partners, with its date: you hear back within 2 days, your briefing and social kit arrive on schedule, your seat is held, and you see next season first.
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Apply
Tell us your business, what you would bring and which Fridays work. Pick as many as you like.
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Hear back within 2 days
Zackory replies by email: approved, one question, or not this season.
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Get your briefing
14 days before your Friday: the agenda, the menu, the venue, your action items with due dates and the send schedule. If your Friday is sooner than that, it arrives the day you are approved.
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Share your social kit
5 days before your Friday: captions, hashtags and alt text for your own channels.
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Come to dinner
Your seat is held. Arrive 30 minutes before candle-lighting. Dinner ends 3 hours after.
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See the next season first
Partners get the next season's dates before they are posted anywhere.
Pick your Fridays
Choose one here and add more in the application. The bar under each time shows how the evenings shorten; the clocks go back on November 1, between Fridays 3 and 4.
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Friday 1
Oct 16
Noach נח
Noach: everyone gathered in, and a promise with a sign you can check
Candles6:00 pm
Partner this FridayThis Friday has passed.
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Friday 2
Oct 23
Lech-Lecha לך־לך
Lech-Lecha, go forth: a Friday table for people who just moved to Santa Monica
Candles5:52 pm
Partner this FridayThis Friday has passed.
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Friday 3
Oct 30
Vayera וירא
Hachnasat orchim, welcoming guests: a table open on all four sides, with someone at the door all night.
Candles5:44 pm
Partner this FridayThis Friday has passed.
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Friday 4
Nov 6
Chayei Sara חיי שרה
Kindness past what was asked, and the names of the people who came before
Candles4:38 pm
Partner this FridayThis Friday has passed.
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Friday 5
Nov 13
Toldot תולדות
Toldot: twins, a bowl of red lentil stew, and blessings said out loud
Candles4:33 pm
Partner this FridayThis Friday has passed.
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Friday 6
Nov 20
Vayetzei ויצא
Jacob's stairway, and noticing the place where you already stand
Candles4:29 pm
Partner this FridayThis Friday has passed.
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Friday 7
Nov 27
Vayishlach וישלח
Vayishlach the day after Thanksgiving: a night of wrestling, a brother who runs to meet you, and saying out loud what you have enough of
Candles4:27 pm
Partner this FridayThis Friday has passed.
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Friday 8
Dec 4
Vayeshev וישב
First night of Chanukah. Chanukah candles are lit before Shabbat candles.
Joseph's coat and his dreams, and the first Chanukah light lit just before the Shabbat candles
Candles4:26 pm
Partner this FridayThis Friday has passed.
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Friday 9
Dec 11
Miketz מקץ
Eighth night of Chanukah. Eight candles, lit before Shabbat candles.
Miketz on the eighth night of Chanukah: Joseph sees the lean years coming and fills the storehouse while there is plenty, and on the one night every Chanukah candle is lit, the menorah goes in the window where the street can see it.
Candles4:27 pm
Partner this FridayThis Friday has passed.
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Friday 10
Dec 18
Vayigash ויגש
Vayigash, drawing near: the brothers find each other again, and every Friday of the season comes back to one table
Candles4:29 pm
Partner this FridayThis Friday has passed.
Ten Fridays, ten ways to be named
Each Friday is named for the partners who made it. A business appears on its card only after it applies and is approved, so every Friday below is still available.
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Available
Friday 1, Oct 16
Noach
Your name here -
Available
Friday 2, Oct 23
Lech-Lecha
Your name here -
Available
Friday 3, Oct 30
Vayera
Your name here -
Available
Friday 4, Nov 6
Chayei Sara
Your name here -
Available
Friday 5, Nov 13
Toldot
Your name here -
Available
Friday 6, Nov 20
Vayetzei
Your name here -
Available
Friday 7, Nov 27
Vayishlach
Your name here -
Available
Friday 8, Dec 4
Vayeshev
Your name here -
Available
Friday 9, Dec 11
Miketz
Your name here -
Available
Friday 10, Dec 18
Vayigash
Your name here
Questions partners ask
Who comes to the dinners?
Guests invited by Zackory or a partner, and people who apply for a seat and are approved. Every guest is approved by name before an invitation goes out.
Can I bring my staff or my customers?
Every partner has a seat: one for a table partner, two for a host partner or a Patron, and up to four nominated guests for a community partner. To bring a larger group, say so when you apply. Zackory approves each person by name.
Can I partner on more than one Friday?
Yes. Pick every Friday that works. Each one gets its own briefing and its own social kit.
What if my Friday is less than 14 days away?
Your briefing goes out the day you are approved, with everything that would have come earlier.
Who gets the venue address?
Partners have it in their briefing. Guests get it 48 hours before dinner, and only if they have RSVPed yes.
Is the food kosher?
Kosher-style, not certified: no pork, no shellfish, and no meat served with dairy. Each Friday's briefing says how the food is prepared. If you keep kosher, say so when you apply and you will have the details before you commit.
Do you send anything on Shabbat?
No. Nothing goes out between Friday candle-lighting and Saturday havdalah, or between 10 pm and 8 am.
Why do some partners say illustrative?
They are examples. No business is named as a partner until it applies and is approved.
Who do I write to?
va@yo-ur.com. Zackory reads it.
Ready to give a Friday?
Hear back within 2 days. Zackory replies by email: approved, one question, or not this season.